I love reading, and the fiction novel is my favorite book genre. As I a refugee child, reading was integral to my learning and has strongly shaped my understanding and articulation of the English language. Indeed, my skill in “speaking English so well for being Asian” originates in reading as a means of escape from both mundane and harsh realities. Sadly, while it did not take much for me to become engrossed in a story, I also struggled to find relatable and likeable characters. Many fiction novels continue to be dispositioned to the white and patriarchal mainstream, with heroines akin to pining away for a male savior. The institutional standard of a happily-ever-after story. I am sure this was one of many contributing factors that stunted the process of growing into my Asian Lesbian identity.
This is why Malinda Lo’s novel, Ash, can be defined as extraordinary. Ash is a creative adaptation of the Cinderella love story, featuring iconic elements such as the evil step-mother and step-sisters, and of course a magical but fleeting evening tryst. Those factors are the furthest extent to which Lo parallels her story to the classic. In Ash, the prince becomes an inconsequential back character, only relevant to solidify the main character’s lesbian coming out process. Lo’s story boldly offers two lesbian perspectives weaved into a single love story. Feminist characters include an out lesbian huntress charged with leading a royal court tradition, and a head-strong and questioning young woman who rejects the traditional mores that are embedded in her household. Lo seamlessly incorporates some critical themes that many Asian Lesbians experience such as familial obligation, finding the path to one’s life purpose, resistance of compulsory heterosexuality, a natural but initially inexplicable attraction to women, all the way to the feeling of liberation and wholeness when the main character accepts herself. Lo was able to integrate all of these themes and more, without taking away the romantic and magical allure of a romantic fairy tale. Other interesting themes include an allusion to traditional Asian medicine such as the use of herbs and the harnessing of qi, as well as the concept of a shared energy from lineage and previous lifetimes. Awesome!
Ash simultaneously serves its purpose of providing a good read, while at the same time making a bold political statement in its story telling. It provides Asian Lesbians a fairy tale they can get lost in, pushing boundaries. It left me with a sense of gratification and the typical warm fuzzies people experience after finishing a good book, amplified with the audacious dream of our own happily-ever-after. I highly recommend Ash for those in desire of a non-cliché love story.
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Monday, October 29, 2012
Thursday, October 4, 2012
"Fortunate Daughter" - A one-dyke show
The secret to keeping your family happy is ... keeping your other family secret. A one-dyke show about the difference between coming out and coming home. Thao’s Vietnamese parents keep pushing her to marry – a man. Her other family – her Queer activist friends, coworkers, and community – wants her to come out. Thao doesn't want to do either! But the pressure builds from both sides and she is forced to make a decision.
Written & Performed by Thao P. Nguyen
Oct 6, 13, 20, 27
Saturday 8pm
Stage Werx Theatre
446 Valencia St, SF
Near 16th & Mission St BART
Google Map
Tickets $20BrownPaperTickets.com
Discount Code:$10-$20 sliding scale w/ online discount code.
It's a scavenger hunt! Find the code somewhere at ThaoSolo.com!
Discount only valid online!
Credits
Written and performed by Thao P. Nguyen
Produced by Meanie ProductionsDirected by Martha RynbergOriginally directed by W. Kamau BellDeveloped in the Solo Performance Workshop
Buzz About the Show
"Theatrical magic; a pure story, with heart, passion and humor."
- NYtheatre.com
"Sure to go on my top ten list of the year."
- NYtheatre.com
"Fortunate Daughter is hilarious, insightful and engaging!"
- WBAI 99.5FM NYC
“Nguyen's versatility is remarkable, and she's, not to mention, very, very funny.”
- The Daily Californian
“With a finely-crafted story arc, Nguyen's performance is as moving as it is hilarious.”
- Culture Shot
“Thao P. Nguyen is multi-faceted. Her tale is beautifully drawn.”
- San Francisco Theater Blog
"This escapade is interesting and hysterically comical!"- TheatreReviews.com"My favorite part of Nguyen's work is the character complexity. So often in performance art, a character exists only to serve a purpose in the script. Thao's characters are fully human."
- Kimberly Dark, Solo Performer / PoetTwo time winner of Curve Magazine's'Top Ten Performances of the Year'
"Thao P. Nguyen is a force to be reckoned with. She is smart and funny and her solo show is a ride worth taking. And, did I mention, she is really smart and really funny?!"
- Bill Bowers, Performer / Writer / Mime Artist'Zazu' in the Broadway production of 'The Lion King'Writer & performer of 'Beyond Words'
"Nguyen's work pierced my heart/made me had'ta call my Momma. These are stories I've been hungry to experience. Progressive/ deeply human/and funny as all get out. Can't wait to see the show again!"
- Sharon Bridgforth, Theatrical Jazz Artist / WriterLambda Literary Award WinnerAuthor of 'the bull-jean stories' (RedBone Press)
"Nguyen artfully weaves together powerful personal stories and nuanced understandings of critical theory in a show that is deeply moving and incredibly funny."
- Dr. Amy Kilgard, Solo Performer / EducatorProfessor of Communication & Performance StudiesSan Francisco State UniversityWriter of 'Triskaidekaphobia: 13 Consumer Tragedies'
Tuesday, October 2, 2012
"Mad Love" and things in between
A play about the impact of mental health on interpersonal relationships and vice-versa.
Listen to the interview with Playwright/Director Roke Noir here: www.lesbeasian.com
For more details go to www.sirentheatre.org
To buy tickets go to http://madlove.bpt.me
"Mad Love", is part of a yearlong project launched by Siren called MWWA (Mental Wellness for Women through Arts). The aim of the project is to heal the community, raise mental health awareness, and break prejudices through courageous, authentic and collaborative creative work.
The all-women cast and crew of “Mad Love”, diverse in age, religion, race, sexual orientation and profession, have passionately collaborated to give shape to this play to reflect the delights and dilemmas of relationships involving love, madness and things in between. Six nights this October, they will come out with their exploration for you to witness.
"Mad Love", is part of a yearlong project launched by Siren called MWWA (Mental Wellness for Women through Arts). The aim of the project is to heal the community, raise mental health awareness, and break prejudices through courageous, authentic and collaborative creative work.
The all-women cast and crew of “Mad Love”, diverse in age, religion, race, sexual orientation and profession, have passionately collaborated to give shape to this play to reflect the delights and dilemmas of relationships involving love, madness and things in between. Six nights this October, they will come out with their exploration for you to witness.
DOORS OPEN 45 mins before Show Time. NO ENTRY AFTER DOOR CLOSES AT SHOW TIME.
October 5 | 7:00 - 9:00 pm
October 6 | 7:00 - 9:00 pm
October 7 | Matinee | 3:00 - 5:00 pm
October 12 | 7:00 - 9:00 pm
October 13 | 7:00 - 9:00 pm
October 14 | Matinee | 3:00 - 5:00 pm
October 5 | 7:00 - 9:00 pm
October 6 | 7:00 - 9:00 pm
October 7 | Matinee | 3:00 - 5:00 pm
October 12 | 7:00 - 9:00 pm
October 13 | 7:00 - 9:00 pm
October 14 | Matinee | 3:00 - 5:00 pm
Friday, September 14, 2012
New Book! - Diary of Collective Heartbreak
Introducing up and coming author - Chai/柴. Born in 1987 in Taiwan, she currently resides in New York City, New York with two published books. In 2006, she published poetry and short fiction collection "A Necessary Confession" (一則必要的告解) in 2006 in Taiwan. Her latest book is a longer fiction collection called "Diary of Collective Heartbreak" (--集體心碎日記). Check out LesbeAsian's exclusive interview with Chai/柴 sharing the development of her writing and talks about her latest book about relationships, heartbreak, activism, lesbian casual hookups, finding of community and much more!
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Thursday, July 5, 2012
Did you know? There's hella API Lesbians in CA.
According to the Williams Institute, "more than 66,000 Asians and Pacific Islanders in California who identify as lesbian, gay or bisexual and more than 14,500 APIs who are part of a same-sex couple; over 34% of APIs in same-sex couples in California are of Filipino descent; nearly a third (31%) of API women and 21% of API men within same-sex couples are raising children; API same-sex parents have fewer financial resources to support their children than those in married couples, with an average household income of $96,290 compared to $109,091 for APIs in different-sex married couples."
Wow, there's a lot of API LGB folks in California! Add two more cuz Faith and Tawny are now registered Californians :) Listen to our PODCAST for an update!
Friday, April 20, 2012
Khmer Pryde!
Seven Questions
Source: The Phnom Penh Post
The Kingdom’s annual Pride originated with an evening party in 2004, but since 2009 has become a week-long celebration of diversity, respect and unity. Besides extending the length of the party, organisers Rainbow Community Kampuchea and Cambodian Pride Committee have broadened the focus to include greater participation of lesbians, and added film and art festivals as well as a Buddhist blessing ceremony. 7Days asked RoCK organiser Srorn Srun for a peek at what’s in store at this year’s event, which kicks off on May 12.
Is this the first ASEAN Pride week?
Source: The Phnom Penh Post
The Kingdom’s annual Pride originated with an evening party in 2004, but since 2009 has become a week-long celebration of diversity, respect and unity. Besides extending the length of the party, organisers Rainbow Community Kampuchea and Cambodian Pride Committee have broadened the focus to include greater participation of lesbians, and added film and art festivals as well as a Buddhist blessing ceremony. 7Days asked RoCK organiser Srorn Srun for a peek at what’s in store at this year’s event, which kicks off on May 12.
Is this the first ASEAN Pride week?
Saturday, March 3, 2012
Cultural Celebrations/Family Functions
In this podcast we talk about the difficulty in attending cultural celebrations and family gatherings depending on who knows about our lesbian identity - including whether or not to bring a partner if you are in a relationship. Tune in HERE.
Wednesday, February 29, 2012
Linsanity eh, but Emily Tay?! Hawtness!
Emily Tay is an ASIAN LESBIAN basketball sensation out of Harvard University. She had various recognitions by the All-Ivy League Women's Basketball and like Lin, was not drafted out of college. Instead she went abroad to play professional international ball. And before everyone and their mom was talking about Linsanity, Tay was getting publicity for her documentary film, "No Look Pass" that was released last summer 2011. How awesome is that?! I'm sure similar to Lin, she had to endure all that racist BS. And on top of that, dealing with homophobia, hiding part of her identity from her parents and just the struggles of cultural expectations from traditional immigrant parents. She talks about how basketball saved her. How many sporty Asian dykes out there can relate to this story?? I know I can! I know because of my ability to play sports, I was able to be confident in myself enough to push through all the racist, homophobic, sexist things that bombarded me growing up. No Look Pass is an exciting and refreshing portrayal of a lyfe of a LesbeAsian. Check out the trailer HERE.
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